A blended family (or stepfamily) is a family where one or both of the parents have children from previous relationships, as well as possibly children together. Some children will be part of two blended families, if both their parents have new partners. Whether you’re introducing a new partner as a stepparent or are becoming a stepparent yourself, becoming a blended family can be an exciting but daunting prospect. Here are some tips to help.
Tips for an easier family life
Tip #1: Give everyone time to adjust
Tip #1: Give everyone time to adjust
Tip #2: Get to know each other
Tip #2: Get to know each other
Tip #3: Spend time alone with your child
Tip #3: Spend time alone with your child
Tip #4: Let them know that your new partner isn’t a replacement mum or dad
Tip #4: Let them know that your new partner isn’t a replacement mum or dad
Tip #5: Decide on ground rules as a family
Tip #5: Decide on ground rules as a family
Tip #6: Don’t feel you have to solve every argument
Tip #6: Don’t feel you have to solve every argument
Tip #7: Establish some new traditions
Tip #7: Establish some new traditions
Tip #8: Remember to spend time with your partner
Tip #8: Remember to spend time with your partner
Help and advice
Being a stepparent can be hard, but help is out there. If you need to talk to somebody, Children 1st’s Parentline is here for you and your family. The Spark also provides relationship advice for blended families.